Mark Zuckerberg The Owner Of FACEBOOK Shared This Romantic & Motivating Words!

Mark Zuckerberg The Owner Of FACEBOOK Shared This Romantic & Motivating Words!

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Mark Zuckerberg the owner of the biggest social network (FACEBOOK) in the world shared this on his facebook page. His wife, Priscilla after having series of miscarriages in the past is expecting a baby girl soon, and Mark has this to say:-

    Priscilla and I have some exciting news: we're expecting a baby girl!

    This will be a new chapter in our lives. We've already been so fortunate for the opportunity to touch people's lives around the

world -- Cilla as a doctor and educator, and me through this community and philanthropy. Now we'll focus on making the world a better place for our child and the next generation.

    We want to share one experience to start. We've been trying to have a child for a couple of years and have had three miscarriages along the way.

    You feel so hopeful when you learn you're going to have a child. You start imagining who they'll become and dreaming of hopes for their future. You start making plans, and then they're gone. It's a lonely experience. Most people don't discuss miscarriages because you worry your problems will distance you or reflect upon you -- as if you're defective or did something to cause this. So you struggle on your own.

    In today's open and connected world, discussing these issues doesn't distance us; it brings us together. It creates understanding and tolerance, and it gives us hope.

    When we started talking to our friends, we realized how frequently this happened -- that many people we knew had similar issues and that nearly all had healthy children after all.

    We hope that sharing our experience will give more people the same hope we felt and will help more people feel comfortable sharing their stories as well.

    Our good news is that our pregnancy is now far enough along that the risk of loss is very low and we are very hopeful.

    Cilla and our child are both healthy, I'm extremely excited to meet her and our dog Beast has no idea what's coming. In our ultrasound, she even gave me a thumbs up "like" with her hand, so I'm already convinced she takes after me.

    We're looking forward to welcoming her into the world and sharing more soon when she's ready to come out and meet everyone!

Desperate for a Husband

Desperate for a Husband

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For many years i never knew how ladies in their very late 20s,early 30s and late 30s feel when it comes to the issue of settling down with a man until recently when i had the cause to really get close to many of them.

Yes many of them will always insist that marriage is the least of their worries but deep inside,most of them are hoping desperately to have a man to settle down with and my acquaintanceship with some of them made me decide to write this short piece hoping that when they see and read it,they will come to understand that their desperation is self inflicted and until they learn to put themselves at a vantage point,they will only hope and wish for a long time that a man comes their way.

I have witnessed many deliverance session for ladies all in the name of looking for a husband but after a close look i come to realize that they are their own problems and this is as a result of the society that have brainwashed them and rather than dealing with the problems,they end up running from from one prophet to another and from one deliverance service to another and some have become a shadow of themselves as they
turn to emergency sister dressing like masquerades,going without earrings,make up and even on low cut all in the name of looking for a man.

Please when next you see such ladies,help me inform them that deliverance won't solve their problems and even when we know that there are spiritual hindrance to getting a spouse,most times what we need is a re orientation of our minds,ways of life and culture.

1.Many ladies will not say yes to a man if you are not ready to do traditional wedding,legal wedding,white wedding,blue wedding... Please tell me how easy you expect to find a man in this harsh economy.

2.As an Igbo lady,you are naturally at risk unless you drive it into your man's ear that in your own family they don't ask a man for crazy bride price otherwise you will only see men come into your life without discussing marriage and you will think its a curse from the village but its only as a result of the funny belief that Igbo ladies are expensive to marry.

3.How many ladies can start a life with a struggling man? I guess part of the prayer point during deliverance is that GOD should bring a ready made man to propose to you.Mumu

4.Funny doctrinal belief is another hindrance and many ladies who run to conservative churches in the bid to have a man end up in more bondage.I had a lady friend in her 30s who i admire so much but she goes to one of this conservative churches and there was a time i was so sick and i was expecting her to visit but she never did and when i told her i was angry,she was so quick to say she can not visit me at home and i was like FOR REAL? Even a sick guy? i even told her that she would have at least come in company of a friend and i lost interest in the friendship instantly and i wonder how she will get a good man with that mindset.

5.Rough past is another hindrance and many ladies just believe that if a man loves them the past does not matter.

6.Lack of wife qualities is another issue and i wonder how a lady who does not have the required quality to be a mrs to a man will be desperate fore a man because even if any man comes,he will eventually leave you until you work on yourself.

The bottom line is that many ladies we see in churches today who tend to be looking for a husband are their own problems. So stop been desperate and work on your mindset and you will be surprised that in no time,a good man will walk into your life and marry you.

Clue from Nairaland.

Paternity Fraud In Nigeria: Are You Your Baby’s Daddy?

Paternity Fraud In Nigeria: Are You Your Baby’s Daddy?

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In an article that recently resurfaced, originally published two years ago, a DNA expert said three out of 10 Nigerian men are not the biological fathers of their children. The article no doubt caught the attention of many. And though the authenticity of the statement remains in question, it certainly provoked a conversation, and surely, reactions.

I am certain a good number of men began to question their paternity, and those who had prior suspicions must have gone ahead to take a paternity test. This information came right after the rumoured durex survey which alleged that Nigerian women are the most unfaithful in the world; the statement seemed to fan a flame.

In his interview, the expert made reference to the survey, saying that the sexual recklessness of Nigerian women is the reason for the alarming statistics of paternity fraud in country.

In truth, cases of paternity fraud aren’t common in Nigeria, largely because they are either often settled out of
court, or swept under the carpet. In other parts of the world, the United States for example, paternity fraud is a criminal offence, and one of the most rampant cases in court. Reason? Child support: women seize opportunities to receive a higher child support award than the biological father of the child can provide.

This issue is such a big deal in the West; there are activists and movements against it. In a country like Nigeria, as is with most West African countries, fathers cater for children born prior wedlock, or out of extramarital affairs, without the involvement of the court. So legal cases of paternity fraud are not common.

Another reason for paternity fraud is sexual promiscuity. Promiscuous and unfaithful women are more likely to misattribute paternity, honestly or dishonestly. An Australian-based research did show that 40 per cent of women and 60 per cent of men in a committed relationship will be unfaithful at some point. And that 8 per cent of women had multiple partners while in a long-term relationship.

It was also established that fathers who doubt the paternity claims of their sexual partners are 20 to 28 per cent often correct. The result of a research on the sexual promiscuity among Nigerian female undergraduates indicated a 79 per cent agreement on the prevalence of sexual promiscuity amongst female undergraduates.

In a phone interview with Ventures Africa, Mr. Ayodele Ayodeji of Paternity Test Nigeria said there is one case of paternity fraud out of every four paternity tests conducted at the centre. “I will say one out of four paternity tests turn out negative,” he told me. He also added that people of the South-east – Ibos and South-south – Deltans, patronise the centre more than the people of western Nigeria – the Yorubas.

The implications of paternity fraud are major, disrupting relationships, homes, and marriages. Victims of this crime – father or child – stands the risk of depression, and mental health problems. A child victim is more likely to have self esteem issues and anxiety.
When women make the choice to lie about the paternity of their children, they should bear in mind the misery and heartache these children may later experience.
American film maker and actor, Tyler Perry, admitted to being hurt and disappointed that his late mother lied to him about the true identity of his father.

He found out the truth at the age of 44 after taking a DNA test with his brother. His advice: “Some of you have secrets that your kids need to know. Let the chips fall where they may.
For the peace of that person, let them know.”
·Culled from venuresafrica.coma

Maheeda At It Again (photos) 18+

Maheeda At It Again (photos) 18+

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She actually put her vagina on display in a video she posted on instagram this evening. But I will leave that out.. it's too much. See other pics after the cut...18+ please!

Benenoise Soldier Strips Teenage Female Workers Naked & Tie Them To A Tree for Allegedly Stealing

Benenoise Soldier Strips Teenage Female Workers Naked & Tie Them To A Tree for Allegedly Stealing

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These photos have  gone viral and the story is so bizarre. Information reaching us indicate that a Republic of Benin soldier named Corporal Chabi Séni, stripped five girls naked and tied them to a tree after accusing them of stealing from their madam who owns a bar and who is his wife. 

The soldier decided their punishment would be to parade them naked and have someone take photos of the girls while the bar manager is seen kneeling in the background.

Warning!!! Uncensored Pix after the cut....